You can fall into a bottomless-pit of fear, intimidation, and self-consciousness...
- You end up enjoying an evening out, treating yourself, and focusing all your attention on the food!
"The single diner has no other agenda but to eat in your restaurant. They're not there for business, they're not there for romance. They're there for the restaurant's food and service." (NYTimes)
TIP: If you feel funny about dining alone, bring a book or something similar to keep you entertained while you are waiting for your food, etc. You'll feel much less awkward.
Please add to the list below and share your positive solo dining experiences (emphasis on dinners and restaurants with waitstaff):
|Restaurant||Solo Diner Friendly?|
|Burgers and Brew||Some disagreement about whether this is solo-friendly — see comments below.|
|Crepeville||Great for this as long as they are not totally swamped.|
|Davis Oshio Cafe||Not terrible. You have to refill your own cup anyway and food still takes forever.|
|Delta of Venus||Not too bad actually. The outdoor seating is solo-friendly.|
|Davis Noodle City||Yes during non-peak hours. Otherwise, tables are scarce and wouldn't recommend going solo.|
|Fuji Chef||Yes, and you are more likely to get a seat at the bar during busy hours.|
|Kathmandu Kitchen||Yes for lunch. You likely won't be the only lone diner.|
|Little Prague||Great outdoor patio, inside is nice as well, depending on time of day might feel isolated inside though.|
|Monticello Seasonal Cuisine||Start coming to the Tuesday wine tastings, have some bar food. They have an amazing atmosphere and the staff is amazing.|
|Raja's||Yes for lunch.|
|Silver Dragon||Yes, especially during lunch hours they will constantly fill your glass up.|
|Sophia's Thai Kitchen||Usually very packed and I do not think I have ever seen anyone eat solo here.|
|Sudwerk||If you don't mind sitting at the bar, it's not too bad. Plenty eat solo there. You can pretend you like sports and stare at the televisions too.|
|Tommy J's||Always a good option. It can be a bit crowded at peak hours but there's usually a small table open. Not sure about bar service but if you're drinking and its not crowded I'd ask.|
|Tucos Wine Market and Cafe||Yes, you can walk-in and sit at the bar or call ahead and reserve a table.|
|Village Bakery||With small outside tables and benches, you can people watch by the Amtrak station or grab a slice and sit by the fountain across the street and relax|
Good Spots to Dine Solo
2009-12-04 18:22:56 I haven't solo dined in Davis yet, but I absolutely adore restaurants that offer you a newspaper if they see you're solo and without a book! —RyanMikulovsky
2009-12-04 19:31:46 Lots of people around Davis dine solo and bring stuff to study or books to read or talk on the phone. This is especially common at places like Crepeville, where WiFi and large tables are available. —IDoNotExist
2009-12-04 21:01:39 @IDoNotExist True, but I suppose I should have specified this page towards a more "dinner" type of dining out alone, which I have not seen occur much (besides myself). It's actually pretty rare, even in the big cities, and I'm still trying to figure out how to specify and orient this page towards that... Whether I should just make two extra columns in the table above for Lunch and Dinner, or something else... —H4rry
- Then perhaps Crepeville shouldn't be on your list.
- Removed. Since I haven't been to all of the restaurants listed, feel free to remove any that seem out of place (or add any that are missing) —H4rry
2009-12-05 11:07:16 I'm a little confused on what you are looking for on this list. Is it fancy places in Davis where people might feel awkward eating alone (or happy doing so)? Is it places where people come alone and work all the time? Is it places with entertainment for people who come to them alone? —IDoNotExist
- As far as what I was hoping to assemble here..: Let's just say, anyone can walk into a sandwich shop, a cafe, a pizza shop, etc. and feel perfectly comfortable dining alone... The situation gets tricky for most people when it comes to going to a restaurant where there is a wait staff and where you can sit at a table or at the bar (and actually have to wait for your meal to arrive)—alone (I've heard many say that they just order "to-go" so they can avoid this and just sit in their car and eat or eat it at home alone or at the office—which is what I used to do). I guess I was trying to assemble an encouraging list of the more "questionable" places to eat alone (e.g. not cafes, pizza places, etc.) and whether they were accommodating to solo diners or not. I'm not expecting the "New York" treatment where they'll send out a bottle of wine and free desert, but I figured it'd be nice to know where you're made to feel welcome, where it's not completely awkward, etc. and actively encourage people to get out and eat, alone or not! —H4rry
I've personally had vastly different experiences at Burgers and Brew when going there alone than when going with people. When I go there alone, I often get shunted to tables that are in *terrible* locations compared to the others - even late at night when there are open tables of the same size in better locations, and its obvious that a larger party is not going to need them, and even when I've specifically asked for a better table. This doesn't happen with a group. I don't think that this has really happened to me at other restaurants in Davis. Most have open seating, and many of the remainder specifically ask me where I would like to sit. —IDoNotExist
- I too agree that Burgers and Brew should be removed from being solo-friendly. The atmosphere there is just way too social for anyone sitting alone to feel comfortable or even read a book. —hankim
- I have to beg to differ with both IDoNotExist and hankim on Burgers and Brew... I've had dinner there alone numerous times (without a book, no less—though does a nice pint of beer count as a suitable distraction?), even on weekends and on farmers market nights... and I've had excellent service and good seating (I like sitting at the outside bar so I can see the view of the street and watch people go by—it's 99.9% free for solo diners, even when it's packed)... Now sitting at a regular table there, I can't comment on—which is why I specified outside bar seating above... —H4rry
- Actually, before I decided to seriously try cutting weight (January through middle of March), I would go to Burgers and Brew several times a week alone and was getting pretty decent service. —hankim
- Yeah, generally the other stool area is indeed open, even when it is crowded. However, on cold days, that area can be rather drafty, and often smokers like to stand close to the restaurant and the smoke gets sucked in right around there. Besides, even if I'm eating alone, I might prefer a real table to a stool —IDoNotExist
2010-03-25 15:25:18 Ummm...I dine solo quite a lot. My favourite places to go are: Crepeville, Burgers and Brew (sit on the barstools outside), Black Bear Diner (for breakfast), Ali Baba's, Orange Hut (I snag a table next to an outlet and surf away), Ciocolat and Plutos. Eating alone isn't always so bad—I get lots of work done! —ArianeMetz
2010-04-19 11:11:35 Davis Mikuni is a fine place to dine at lunch time. Ask to sit at the sushi bar! —dmawright
- I want to go there before I leave Davis for good. How's the food? is it real sushi without mayo?
2011-01-24 12:40:57 You can dine solo anywhere!!! —tneeley
2011-04-02 06:43:00 @tneely was it always quite simple and easy for you to dine alone? I find it a bit of an art, especially sans distractions like phones, books, and gadgets. I'm going out tonight for another stab at Davis solo dining. Btw: I have had 2 awful experiences at Burgers and brews.... Ended up going to the new froggy's and was treated like a queen. —Chrissye
- What happened at B&B when you were there?
2011-07-09 21:40:00 I went to Burgers and brew solo style and was very happy with the experience. —MichaelNielsen
2011-08-22 08:53:21 Just ran across this and thought it was a bit humorous that a page was dedicated to it. I am a solo diner, I'd say once every 2 weeks, sometimes once a week. My gf thinks I am weird but as someone in school and working full time I do not always cook. I work in a restaurant downtown so I am in there area anyway. I never feel awkward at Burgers and Brew, but I have only eaten there for lunch which is only half-service. I like the bar seating that overlooks the park. Delta of Venus is nice during the day as sitting outside is great, but like B&B, is half service. Tommy J's definitely is one of the more comfortable places to eat solo so far. I have been to Manna Korean BBQ twice now for lunch and there were a few solo diners. I guess since I work dinner shifts I tend to eat out during lunch and most places are more accommodating to solo diners compared to dinner. I work at Red88 Noodle Bar and have noticed a lot of solo diners for lunch and also dinner. The setup allows you to sit alone away from the server/bartender (usually only 1 person) at a table, or at the bar to chat. There are outlets and wifi as well. —KurtG
2012-10-30 12:10:01 3rd and U, and generally all cafe types tend to be solo-friendly. Students go there to study, even. I'm the type who almost never goes on social outings. Many people seem to think that's weird, but I really don't give a damn anymore. We are out of middle school, people should know better than to judge someone who does not follow society's agenda that you must eat food with other people. Food is just food, end of story. —Chelsea744
2013-03-09 20:01:28 I would like to add Black Bear cafe- it has a friendly atmosphere and there is a bar-top area that faces the kitchen you can eat at. I've dined there a few times alone and have had good experiences. —jls
2013-08-18 03:29:06 I don't get it... you can walk into any restaurant, ask for a table of 1, and have a menu handed to you when you're seated; at least, I haven't heard stories of anyone being denied or given a funny look by a waiter when dining solo. I've eaten at many places in Davis solo (for dinner and lunch; with a book and without; full service and less service), and the only consideration I gave a restaurant was whether I was craving their food, unless my brain was doing something subconsciously. If this is about not feeling awkward while surrounded by a bunch of couples or groups, I think that problem would exist anywhere, even taco bell... —TheShah